Day 13 - Silver Bells

Day 13 - Silver Bells

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day 12 - I'll Be Home For Christmas

Day 12 - I'll Be Home For Christmas

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day 11 - It's The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

Day 11 - It's The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day10 - Rudolph, The Red-Nosed Reind

Day 10 - Rudolph, The Red-Nosed Reindeer

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day 9 - You're a Mean One, Mr. Grinch

Day 9 - You're a Mean One, Mr. Grinch

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day 8 - Little Drummer Boy

Day 8 - The Little Drummer Boy

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day 7 - Jingle Bell Rock

IT'S BEEN A WEEK ALREADY!!!!!!
Day 7 - Jingle Bell Rock

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day 6 of the #25DaysofChristmas

Day 5 of the #25DaysofChristmas

Day 5 - White Christmas

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day 4 of the #25DaysofChristmas

Day 4 - Santa Claus is Coming to Town

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day 3 of the #25DaysofChristmas

Day 3 - Winter Wonderland

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day 2 of the #25DaysofChristmas

Day 2 - Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you. #25daysofChristmas

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Day 1 of the #25DaysofChristmas

For the next 25 days, I'm going to sing a Christmas song for you.#25daysofChristmas

Day 1 - The Christmas Song (Chestnuts Roasting on an Open Fire)

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Looking Forward to Home

As the anxiety starts to settle in about returning home, I am reminded of the bubble that I contained myself in.  While in India, I have yoga classes with meditation, amazing food choices and walking the line of being completely anonymous and infamous at the same time.  I already miss India and I haven't even left yet.  

My element is in chaos.  My experience is going for days without seeing someone I know personally and keeping to myself in my world of creation.  When I think about going home, I get a general sense of feeling hindered and "too much."  I'm too much for a lot of people, I have learned, because I make them face a part of themselves that is uncomfortable.  I stretch the limits of what is possible.  This is a quality I now embrace.

My own life story stretches the limits of what is possible.  How did a guy from St. Joseph, MO make it to California, graduate from one of the top private art schools in the United States, move back to Missouri and, then, move halfway across the world to India?  It blows my mind every single day.  I have to wonder if I made all these things happen.  I did say that I would be back when I set foot in San Francisco back in 2000 for an overnight photoshoot.  I, also, said one day that I would make it to India.  My day has come.

I have to wonder if this goes for negative things in our life too.  If I think that my trip home will be full of drama and discouragement, will I make it that way?   I have come too far to know that my self worth is too much to ignore.  I have learned the power of positive thinking not only of myself but of others.  This is true on all fronts.

Regardless of what comes my way while visiting the U.S., I vow that I am just going to enjoy the ride.  Most of all, I have a very select few that I am very excited to see and hug.  I get to live and work in New York City for a week, teach a 2-day yoga workshop, be a special speaker at Missouri Western State University, sell my photo prints and facilitate a class to keep young drivers safe on the road.  That translates to getting to help people, my favorite thing to do in the entire world. 

From the famous words of Jewel in keeping to my musical references - "I'm sensitive and I'd like to stay that way."  After all, it's not everyday you get to say, "Hey, I'm only in the states for a month." 

Jumping Hurdles

When you are trying to make huge sweeping changes in your life, you must remember that 'it can't happen all in one day.'  This was a phrase my mom and dad use to tell me.  As an adult, I'm now confused by that statement because when we want something bad enough we change on a dime.  Actually, I would bet that anything we really want  - we make happen.  This goes for weight loss, sports and a vacation goals.  My coach, Wesley Chapman, and I are completely starting to do the real work.  

After all, now I have to be nothing but honest with myself:  I thought changing my life would happen overnight and Wesley would be the magic wand that would solve everything.  Wrong.  While, Wes is completely helpful, a lot of this work is happening on my own with his guidance.  I find shifting in my thoughts, my attitudes towards people become more connected and my resistance to fall into the negative has a high threshold.  I'm grateful for Wes and have to credit myself as well.

In the beginning of our work, he had me write my story.  It basically ended up being this victim drama with real life scenarios.  We all have something that has happened to us when you take out the competition of who had it worse.  In the three months of work, I had read and reread that story multiple times (and, still do).  Although I have had some serious things happen to me in my very short lifetime, the way I look at every situation is different.  I'm not talking about petty, recent adult situations.  I am talking about from my first memory until the present.  Victim is a word that is a curse and a blessing.  To some, it is a weapon when you have fallen victim to them.  

Did I mention that all of our calls are recorded - audio and video?  Yes.  I watch them too.  I stopped being embarrassed after rewatching a call where I was disappointed when I didn't feel my birthday was celebrated the way I expected it to be.  We have focused on expectation because my expectations are so high for people and circumstances.  I'm a work in progress with a hard deadline.

My journey also lead me to reverse engineering my goals.  I broke up my life into different quadrants.  Relationship, Art, Intellectual, Career and Financial quadrants were a few that I listed goals under.  Then, I wrote what it would take to achieve that goal.  Since then has really been making it all happen.  I have a corporate art sale in the works, I have grown my Instagram follows, started documenting my journey and started a routine that I work towards daily.  

In the Honesty module of Wes's program, we established that my core identity is Unconditional Love but I let this cause me conditional pain.  I love unconditionally but then I let myself get hurt and blame others for that pain.  This was an incredible discovery moment.  I have let people's actions completely crush me.  I have let people actions determine who I am.  What the hell? 

While now I am on a path of forgiveness, I am learning to forgive myself first.  In the end, the only person that you have to answer to is yourself.  The only person who's disappointment really matters is your own.  It is hard to look at your faults and say, "You know, it's ok.  Let's try that again."  Eventually, we become what we think.  I'm thankful that this journey of self discovery in 'Waking my inner hero' has paralleled with my yoga journey.  

So, why do I write this blog?  Because this is one of my hurdles that I have to jump over.  I have to be able to be simply be me without censoring myself out of fear that you or whoever reads this will not like me or think less of me.  I have to write this because one day it is my hope that I can look back at this and say, "Who the hell was that guy?"  And, step more into the life that I choose to live with love that doesn't deplete me but energizes me.